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Discovering Self-Care 

Having a well-balanced self-care routine is essential to help maintain a healthy relationship with yourself. It is important to set aside at least 15-30 minutes out of the day to do something that takes care of your mental/physical health to  promote positive health outcomes. You should always find  time out of the day to love yourself before you love others.

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Journaling for Self-Care

‌Do me a favor. If you have a piece of paper, notebook, or anything to write on nearby, grab it! If you have a timer on your phone or a clock, set that timer for 5 minutes. Now, I want you to write down everything you are feeling or have been feeling at this very moment down on that piece of paper until that timer runs out. Ready, Set, Go! 

           If you did the task above this is called Journaling. Journaling has shown to be one of the more effective acts of self-care. A 2006 study by Stice, Burton, Bearman, & Rohde showed that writing in a journal can be as effective as cognitive-behavioral therapy when it comes to reducing the risk of depression in young adults. This is just one of the many benefits that comes with journaling. Journaling also has shown to reduce symptoms of anxiety, manage stress, improve classroom engagement, improve overall immune & memory function as well as promote gratitude. I personally journal on a daily basis coupled with meditation at least 10-20 minutes and I can say that I have benefited tremendously from journaling. Journaling has allowed me to focus on all the good things happening in my life and not to put all my attention towards the negative things in life. Kristina Baines is an associate professor of anthropology at the City University of New York and she instructed her students to participate in a public research initiative called the Pandemic Journaling Project (PJP). The PJP is a " new online journaling platform and mixed methods research study created to give people around the world an opportunity to chronicle their pandemic experiences" (Baines, 2022). Baines required her students to engage in the PJP each week in one or two ways and then post their thoughts on their class discussion board. They were given the option to reflect on a journal post that they read on or participate in journals and project research each week. The PJP assignment was beneficial to students in "reframing their experiences, related to anxiety, loneliness and 'mental health,' broadly defined, as normal – as something others were experiencing in a similar way" (Baines, 2022). A lot of students chose to do both and below are some responses from the students on how the PJP project has impacted them. 

Student #1, NY

“It also helped us be more aware of our emotions and find a healthy way to challenge these feelings. I found this interesting because I have been more aware of my feelings and what is causing those feelings now more than ever. I found journaling to be a
coping method with what I’m feeling and it has helped" (Baines, 2022).

Student #2, NY

"Expanding my capacity toward becoming capable of facing a large amount of stress and starting to view the world with a fresh, new perspective. This new perspective led to knowing the importance of appreciation because it gave me an opportunity to calm myself, along with using the memories from early 2020 as therapy. This realization moment that was worthy of including in the Pandemic Journaling [Project]”(Baines, 2022). 

Student #3, NY

“I have therapy many people don't have access to mental health services. But it is very common and it is OK to have feelings, it is normal to have feelings and it is OK to be upset … That's why this journal and even though the journal was a small paragraph it still stuck out to me...”(Baines,2022).

4 Ways for Journaling Effectively

Self-control
The dark side of your screen

Now a days everyone has a phone they can look at. If you you’re a college student or work in an office environment, odds are you spend a lot of your day looking at a screen.  Are you aware that the time you spend with your eyes glued to a screen may be affecting you in a negative way? Not only can your vision be affected from looking at something so close without taking a break but so can your stress levels. Although the screen time itself isn’t directly increasing your stress levels it has a part in it. In multiple studies that were conducted regarding this matter it was shown that the more screen time one has more likely you are to have poor sleep quality (Amaral, 2018) and that’s what increases your stress levels especially for college students. Poor sleep quality combined with a sedentary lifestyle also leads to more stress which leads to more screen time.

 

That’s not to say that one has to cut off ALL screen time (although in an ideal world) but its important to find a balance or at the very least Increase your physical activity to help minimize those adverse effects.

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Ways to limit screen time and its effects

  • Set a timer or use an app that limits how much time you spend on certain apps.

  • Don’t just aimlessly watch tv and reserve tv time for shows/movies that you actually want to watch.

  • Find hobbies that can help keep you away from a screen for long periods of time.

  • Utilizing the 20-20-20 rule which states for every 20 minutes of screen time look at something for 20 seconds 20 feet away is also helpful.

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Self-control isn’t just limited to this. There are many aspects in life that self-control can help in improving. Its also important to remember that too much of anything will almost always have negative effects.

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References:

Baines, Kristina. (2022). “It's normal to admit you're not okay”: New York City college students shaping mental health through journaling. SSM - Mental Health, 2, 100119. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.ssmmh.2022.100119

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Stice, E., Burton, E., Bearman, S. K., & Rohde, P. (2007). Randomized trial of a brief depression prevention program: an elusive search for a psychosocial placebo control condition. Behaviour research and therapy, 45(5), 863–876. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.brat.2006.08.008

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Arshad, D., Joyia, U. M., Fatima, S., Khalid, N., Rishi, A. I., Rahim, N. U. A., Bukhari, S. F., Shairwani, G. K., & Salmaan, A. (2021). The adverse impact of excessive smartphone screen-time on sleep quality among young adults: A prospective cohort. Sleep science (Sao Paulo, Brazil). Retrieved May 2, 2023, from https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8776263/

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